Is Your Dog Always by Your Side?
If you’ve ever wondered, ‘Why does my dog follow me from room to room?’, you’re not alone. It’s one of the most common behaviours dog owners notice, and it can be both endearing and a bit puzzling. Here at PawsGuide, we’re all about understanding our furry companions better, so let’s explore why your pup might be your most loyal shadow.
They’re Wired for Connection
Dogs are pack animals by nature. In the wild, being with the group meant safety, food, and companionship. Although your home isn’t the wild, your dog’s instinct is still strong. When your dog follows you, it may be their way of staying close to ‘the pack’ – and that pack is you.
Whether you’re popping to the kitchen for a snack or hanging the washing out, your dog sees your movement as an opportunity to be part of whatever you’re doing. It’s not nosiness – it’s loyalty.
They’ve Learned You’re the Good Stuff
Another reason your dog follows you could be you’ve trained them to do it… without even realising!
If every time they follow you into the kitchen they get a treat, or when they sit near you they get fuss and praise, they start to associate being by your side with good things. Dogs are quick to make these associations, and they’ll keep doing what works for them.
Separation Anxiety, or Just Love?
Sometimes, constant following can be a sign of attachment issues. If your dog becomes visibly distressed when you leave the room, or can’t settle unless you’re right there, it could point to separation anxiety.
This is different from simple affection – it’s more intense and can affect their wellbeing. If this sounds like your dog, it might be worth getting advice from a qualified behaviourist. Keep in mind, though, not all followers are anxious. Plenty of dogs just really enjoy being near their people.
They Might Be Bored
When dogs aren’t getting enough stimulation, they may stick to you as a source of entertainment. If you notice they only follow you during certain parts of the day, or seem restless, they might need a new toy or more mental stimulation – like a bit of training or a food puzzle.
Even a 5-minute game of fetch or a walk around the block can do wonders to settle an overly attached pooch. Keeping your dog mentally and physically active can help them feel more independent too.
How to Encourage Healthy Behaviour
If you love your dog’s company but want to give them a bit more independence, try these gentle tips:
- Reward calm behaviour when they decide to settle away from you
- Give them a comfy spot in a different room with a chew or toy
- Teach a “stay” or “settle” cue, so they learn they don’t need to go where you go
Remember, it’s not about pushing them away – it’s about helping them feel secure on their own too.
A Sign of Love That’s Easy to Cherish
At the end of the day, when your dog follows you around, it’s often just another way they show love. Whether they’re lying at your feet or trotting close behind, it’s a sign you’re their most important person. If it gets a bit much, there are small changes you can make to encourage balance – but don’t be surprised if you miss your little shadow when they’re not there! 🐾